Mind Power-Change is the important word we have to keep in our mind,Fearless when you were stopped in hesitation

Mind is such which can think horrible things which you can not speak outside. Mind is such which visualizes situations which were yet to be reported as happened. Mind is such which is like our backyard garden - if you sow the flower seeds, it will grow flowers and if you do not care to maintain it, it will become a jungle. Mind is such, which acts and reacts with terrible speed from one issue to another and travel from one country to another in a fraction of second.

Instead of asking you to stay positive - I would like to say "Be imaginative and be creative. The thing is that let us not put all our eggs in one basket! Keep alternatives is the key word. In the present circumstances in the present Internet age, in the present terrorist bombings and Tsunami incidents - Keep alternatives and keep changing the alternatives!

When I was not having job, when my family was waiting for me to bring money for running the house, I was sitting at an Internet Café looking after the customers - without payment! I want to keep my mind occupied, I want to keep myself alive and I want to keep myself in a way that I can thing else other than job. At that time a person has come to me to ask for a write on an important issue. I asked him to come back in the evening after 8.00. He was there at that time. The issue was a marketing tie up with a reputed company - product was automobile filters - He was so much happy that the impact of this tie would enhance the company's financial position to a comfortable level. He wanted me to analyze the offer and the circumstances and his views and prepare a report for board meeting to be held next day. I just rip-open the total contract and explained that after 3 years his company would be forced to sell it to the other party and explained the things. He asked me to include everything. I did that. Next day at 4 in the evening he came back and took me to the meeting. I went there without any special dress. Two of the directors were laughing at me. The other director stopped them and warned that report what I gave them to be kept in a specific file as they may have to read it after 2 years.

It was like a wakeup call! I was surprised that I still have the ability and knack to analyze the things. I am not a dead wood! Next week I got the job.

"Change" is the important word we have to keep in our mind. Depression comes to the people who are not adept to the change, not ready for the change, not anticipating the change and not aware of the change. In this 21st century - change is inevitable. Nothing is permanent - innovation is key word creativity is the catch word - change is the result of both. Obviously change brings the changed circumstances and changed mentality and changed environment. Don't blame some one else if you are not ready for the change.

Those who do not welcome innovation they are living dead. Those who do not have creativity they need to look for a job in the nearest Federal Government office. Innovation is positive approach and not knowing the innovation is the first step towards negative approach. These people do not want any change; they want the same bus, same taxi, same atmosphere, same office, same work flow and same responsibilities but not the same salary. IBM said that we are surrounded by endless possibilities and inspiration. Inspiration is the basic thing which is required for a man to survive. Inspiration to meet the challenges, to face the change, to accept the change and to innovate and live innovatively in the middle of the problems and issues and complications!

Innovation and inspiration can bring miracles in your life, change the total picture of the situation.

1. Smile and laugh smile is without sound, laughter is smile with sound. Use them appropriately. When some one praises you, recommends you, appreciates you smile. Don't laugh.

2. If some one crack a joke on you laugh on yourself! It's better. And if some body is describing you to a third party in your presence with more emphasis, better laugh which indicates that you will take these things as easy as joke!

3. Never mind about return greeting. GREET! Greet people according to the tradition of land, tradition of that language and tradition of that organization and a particular person. I am a Hindu but working for an organization where Muslim population was more, so I greet them with "Adaab" and they were very much pleased. And in the same office, a potential client has come who is aged and experienced so when he was leaving I raised both my hands and said " Namaskar" And he was so much pleased!

4. Be a power packed personality! And that power has a tendency to send the equal wave lengths to others around. When enter an office and say "Hi, Hello! And say to the reception girl "You are looking marvelous" and move ahead to your cabin or seat? Remember that next day people expect some thing else from you. The reverberations are must.

5. Dreaming is not a crime, it's an asset. Unless you dream, you will not have aim and unless you have an aim, you will not aspire and unless you aspire you will not reach there.

6. Never copy some one else. Never trek the road which was trekked by many. Try the un-treked terrain may be it is difficult but then you will find some thing after some time which is YOURS.

7. Work like a dog. That doesn't mean that you will have to work 24 hours a day you need to learn from the way the dog works. Ask any Dog. He will say that he fakes the love that he loves his work. As you know the dog is meant for watching the house from unwanted intruders of any kind. But then, bringing the paper or running after the ball is not his work. Still with great skill, interest and enthusiasm the dog runs after the ball and bring the paper to you and wait for your next command.

8. Commitment is one thing which you should have on any thing which you undertake. By force or for obligation if you do, you will produce the results which explain your lack of interest or commitment on that work. Without commitment without real interest you will never produce the remarkable results. Remarkable results are which they give remarkable appreciation. Commitment is not such a thing which comes out of blue. It requires engagement with the work; love to do it, steady analysis and streaming results.

9. Change it is like air and water we can say it is the sixth element. You have seen yourself changing from adolescence to maturity you are looking around and observing and witnessing the change in every aspect. Still if you refuse to change, or refuse to change your attitude or refuse to change the perspective then though you have the vision and ability to listen you are like an animal. Change is the natural phenomena.

10. Some times in some occasions we need to forget and forgive few people irrespective of the gravity of the offence or mistake, Never mind about their behavior or never mind about their attitude. Never mind their ego centric attitude. Leave it leave them alone. They will come around. But then I am not asking you not to make a initial trial. But do not persist with the trails.

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Accept adversity and disappointment; accept it! Without which you will not learn any thing about them. Once you are aware of these disappointments, you will be ready for that and you will not get hear-attack. One should taste the disappointments time-to-time in the life. Otherwise he will become arrogant and headstrong.

An ant may well destroy a whole dam.

The hare like person slowly but methodically chips away at the large, static person's total objectives.

Crows everywhere are equally black.

There are two things: one, there are some things in life that come around again and again, and they always spell the same thing, and two, unless you redesign, reinvent yourself, you merge into the sea of general people around you like one crow amongst many.

A flea on the top of a bald head.

Know your vision and objective and make sure you are in it!

No wind, no waves. Create a wind - to make waves

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----------We cannot make up our mind when we are in some kind of mental Depression. Immediately we have to discourage that tendency and try and come out of it. Keep your mind steady when it is literally falling down, with increasing speed. Steady! And when you are able to catch some thing invisible to hold your mind together, start climbing without a second thought. The best and excellent toe-hold would be the thought about some thing opposite of what made you to come to the level of depression, totally opposite. Some situations and their anti depressing exercise.

Fearless when you were stopped in hesitation - particularly when you want to express your opinion, express your view, your objective, your argument, your case - particularly when every one is expecting or when the opposite side is taking your hesitation as an advantage. In both the cases, some one will have a glance at you, it may not be a straight glance but an indirect glance. Significantly it may come from the opposite party itself. Watch out, speak out.

Never quit out of disgust or out of helplessness. Persist, keep on, insist your self to stay put for some time. If you leave then you have to answer yourself. And you know that there is no limit for questions from your side itself.

You are born with some unique composition. There is no other person in the entire universe like you. Realize that. That way you do have your unique qualities and you only know about how to use them. For you, everything else is common and ordinary. You respect yourself and accept that without argument.

Innovation is the one thing which brings colors to the life. Creativity is the thing which makes the man age-less. Unless you start looking innovation and creativity around you, you will not bring excitement in your life.