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Prayers
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PRAYERS

Prayer is a demand of the soul.  God has no intention to make us beggars, as he has created his impression / image in us. A beggar by his disposition and his mental calculations goes to a rich man and asks for something and he will get that something suited to him, whereas the rich man's son can ask any thing - and gets privileged share. Every religion and their preachers and the Prophet repeatedly informed to us that we are the children of that religion / Prophet / God.  He treated us and asked us to treat ourselves as His sons / daughters.  That is the reason we should not behave like beggars. 

As you might have observed, some people will have everything on their plate and some people only have the bad-luck and failures. It's not that God has created them separately and with a curse.  It is for us to identify, locate, develop and sustain that specific power to attract everything to us. May be you might have been disappointed that your prayers were not giving you any relief of sorts. But then do not lose faith on prayers.  In order to find out the result, you must have the strong belief on the prayers but not the testing curiosity.  IN the testing curiosity, your concentration is on the ever-changing mindset looking for clues to find the result or lack of it.  This is not the prayer.

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May be you are asking like a beggar and God has not answered you in a way He wants. And also, what you ask should be justifiably belongs to you - in other words, what you ask is should be suitable to you. When there are thousand and one difficulties / problems / distressing issues and you are faced with one difficulty, then you need one clue or sure way to come out of that and pray for that. So the tactics is to change the way you pray God.  That is changing your perspective from a beggar to the Son of God!  Demand like a son, ask Him, cajole Him, convince Him and request Him.   That is you are adding power and wisdom to your prayer.


Some people become anxious and extremely nervous when they go to an interview or when they were about to ask for a raise or when they were writing some competitive examinations or when the results were about to be declared.  Anxious and nervous actions will not draw the power of creation.  But the calm and powerful confidence can bring the response from the Infinite.  That shows the DNA of success is within you and particularly with in your thinking perspective and attitude. If the attitude and perspective has changed, everything can be accomplished. When a person was suddenly terminated from his services, he was asked about whether he wants the service certificate for the period he worked for the organization.  He said yes!  But then when it was being issued, he was told that with this certificate he has to try for a job for years and has to come back to them at the end.  For that the person replied that as long as he has got both his hands and legs and as long as his ability to grasp the matters is alive, he will never think of coming back to the organization where he was terminated - without his fault. After 6 years the same person recommended another young person for a job in that firm.  As soon as it was known that he was recommended by that person, the boy was appointed and said that the company is ready to take another 3 people who can be recommended by him.
Don't accept failure


Will power is what we talk about divine.  When you give us using your own will power you will become man without divine power.  The power of hands and legs, power of eyes and ear and the power of physical human organs if you sum it up, is equal to one will power!  When the will power is lost, you start meeting the Doctor.  You are dependent on others, you cry and depress and you lose your originality.

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You must believe in the possibility of what you are praying for.  If you are looking for owning a house, your mind may tell you that you are not fit to own a house or you are not capable of construing a house and may ask you rightly about "How come you can own a HOUSE?"  You will be shocked and start forgetting the idea.  Yet the will power which is alive, will always try and bug you to have a own house.  Develop this, obey to that, nurse the idea, and look out for avenues and PRAY for GOD's intervention. In the process, there will be difficulties, one after other, like testing.  Still if you keep the God in your mind, go ahead with the work - you will be achieving the ultimate.  There was an ancient  Poet Named bhatruhari - who wrote several poems on different subjects.  One sloka translated in Telugu is given below with due translation:


                        Aaarambhimparu  Neecha manavulu Vighnaayaasa Santrasthulai
                        Aaarambhinchi Parityajinturu - Vighnaayattulai Madhaymul
                        Dheerul Vighna nihanya maanulaguchun Praarbdarthamulu
                        Ujjagimparusumee  Prajnaanidhul Gaavuthan!

The poet has divided the people into THREE major classifications.  One is Neecha            ( Third Class)  Two : Madhyama ( Second Class)  and The third is Dheera ( the First class)   The people belongs to the third class will not start any new venture anticipating and apprehending about the probable difficulties and obstacles; The people belongs to the second class  start the venture but as soon as there is some kind or other obstacles appears, they will stop the venture but the first class people - the author said that - as they are clever, with wisdom and imagination - even after facing the different obstacles and difficulties, they never give up but continue to move forward as they are bestowed with will power.

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WILL POWER
A weak will is a common mortal will.  The moment the trials and failures discouraged and cut it off, it looses its connection with the energy of the infinite.  But behind every human will is the divine will that can be never failing.  Even death has no power to deter divine will.  The Lord will certainly answer all the prayers where the force of will is there, consistency is there and stability is there. The laziness and lethargy encourages sleep and rest as an alternative for Prayer.  Because we treat the prayer as a liability, as a job to be done under duress, a ritual under compulsion so this attitude itself will encourage the lethargy and laziness to seep in your mind. The will power is vanished and the brain is filled with rejections.

Every one is capable of doing everything which they think is beyond their reach, beyond their power, beyond their min-set and beyond their perspective.  The people who are thinking like this are making themselves conditioned to that kind of attitude.  There is nothing beyond our reach.  One should not compare with surrounding people or relatives or family traditions to reach a perception, to make an observation and to reach an opinion ON THEMSELVES.   YOU are an individual, possessed with a brain to think, independent to build your own attitude, create your own unique perspective. It is YOU who is going to swim the life alone, ride the rough stretches and cross the thick forests - all kinds.  You are alone who came to this world, you will alone going back.  In between in many instances, occasions - particularly - when you are challenged by adversity - YOU are alone to decide about the next course of action.  You   eat food and you drink water and you take bath - there no one else, do these things for YOU.  So there is no necessity to recognize that will power and unearth it to become a Maharshi or Yogi.  But use that will power to cross the difficult times. 

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There is an interesting quote "Your character is known by friend circle you keep".  That was very old quotation.  Let us observe the things in modern practical perspective. Suppose you would like to become a Tennis Player - you will try and join an Academy which specializes in coaching of the Tennis right from the age of 12.  You would like to do masters in Business Management, and then you aim to enter the Harvard or Kellogg or MIT so you will start your secondary education at a right place from where many students went straight to those institutions.  If you own and running an enterprise, you will see that your son or daughter to study the things which are connected to the business you are in.   That is the reason; there are many clubs, academies, training institutes, specific colleges and courses - where the like minded students / people join to pursue their common goal.  There will be no discouragement, no disagreement and no bias.  Rather you will find everyone is running towards one goal, their perception is same, their goal is same and so there will be a terrible encouragement and rather combative mood to surge ahead. 

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Beware and be tactful:

Tactics and strategy are different.  Tactics is for immediate and temporary assignment and strategy to plan for a long lasting assignment.  Will power verification and assertion that YOU do have will power is not for the public display.  It is for you and YOU alone.  One should not accept every challenge thrown on them to prove their will power.  One should not go ahead with bets and competitions to succeed through will power. Remember that there are thousands of people under disguise of close friends or lovers or well wishers - they encourage you for their merry, to satisfy their sadism, to make you a fool, to bring your reputation down, to tarnish you to ruin you and to create inferiority complex in you.  So never accept any bets and competitions which are designed for YOU, without any authority or recognition. Never jump into an unknown lake without knowing swimming or even if you know swimming - just for the heck of it or for proving your will.  May be the lake is filled with crocodiles, may be there is rock which is invisible in the water and many things like this.

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Where and when the PRAYER is suitable?

Where we have to do this prayer, how we need to do - whether to do in the early mornings, evenings, day time or in night time - whether it is on Sunday or Friday and where it can be done whether in the house or in the temple, whether by sitting or standing, do we need to keep some thing beneath, or do we need to bend ourselves - and how much bending is required? Is it necessary to close our eyes or it is optional or mandatory? And do we need to recite the Sanskrit slokas or prose?

These are the few of the many questions we usually face when the question of prayers is taken up. So far as Hinduism is concerned and Brahmin is in the question - then the three times Sandyavandanam is compulsory. What kind of text to be used for recitation of  Sandhyavandan is prescribed in particular religious books where as it can be noted that this Sandhyavana can be done either individually or in a group.   In this type of group or individual recitation of prayers - one should know the difference between the Prayer, mere recitation and salutation.

Salutation is specifically designed to greet the elders and as well as some time younger people and also equal aged people, friends, teachers, officers and unknown yet people with high caliber and high scholastic knowledge etc., We salute them to express our regards, we salute them as we cherish their knowledge and we salute them for the privilege they have given to us to meet them.

Namasakaram - is one salute which is most famous in entire south Asian countries including India and its subcontinent. One Sanskrit Scholar informed that when we salute a person with Namasakar - that doesn't mean that we are low and they are high - it is saluting the Atman which is the basic of that person. An individual may be doing many wrong things yet his Atman is pure and perfect, without any death or decay - we are saluting to that Atman and we need not feel inferiority in doing so.

Mere recitation about their good deeds is another kind of thing.  In this we continue to recite thousand and eight names in different ways for a number of times.

The other one is Prayer - by its meaning itself it is known that we are there to ask some favors, requesting a help, begging for immediate solution and insisting for some way out from the present calamity!

When will you do the Prayer - for this, a counter will be, when will you take medicine? Whenever you feel bad, feel disturbed, dejected, nervous, miserable, gloomy, unwanted, awful, troublesome and low - you can do the prayer.  When you were not given the due justice, when you feel cheated, when there is no body to whom you can represent your case, when things are going out of your hand, when feel that you are alone - you will turn to the God. And there is no time for that - because it's an emergency.

Then the question - rather a doubt - will be where to do? Just do it - start doing it wherever you are!  Wash your feel and hands and wash your face and start doing it. either you can sit in a corner or stand at one place or you can walk - but keep the concentration on the God. Leave the results to him and let him take care of the modalities to bring you out of the rut. Continue to do the prayer - within yourself - and concentrate on the God and if you need to participate in any discussion - do that.  Because Bhagavan Sri Krishna said that - as a man, we have to do our ordained and prescribed duty on this earth and pray for him and leave the results to him. Unless you totally leave the outcome to him, he will not interfere.  Don't try tinkering - don't change the parties and don't mix the Gods! Never invent new Gods when you are in the middle of the ocean.

 
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Life - if you treat it as a present from the God, preserve it.  If you treat it as your own creation, preserve it, if you don't know what to do with that life - better preserve it.  To drink alcohol or to take drugs or to kill some body - you need no will power.  But then to come out of that kind thinking, bloody hell, you need a ton of will power or may be more. To resign a job - it takes an hour to decide- to get the sack - it will take a second to spit on your boss and you had it!  Try getting a similar job? 


You need to have a strategy to drive your life in a better way. You need tactics to come out of or wriggle out from the difficulties and dangerous spots and potential trouble makers.

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Belief and Experience:

Experience is two kinds. One is own experience, another is that some one told you by his experience. Your father is an experienced person - who told you in the early days about what not to do and what to do, how not to do and how to do, why it should be done, and why some things do not be attempted.    If you take his words and follow his experience, you have actually saved minimum 20 years of your R & D!  Because your dad has done that and the results are informed to you.  Suppose you try again those things without caring what your father has told you, you will be the same as your father, who will be repenting for his mistakes and would like to inform the same to your son about your experiences. You may have to spend minimum 15 years to learn on your own, in some cases more than that - a life time. 


Belief is not experience - but an experience of somebody which is being conveyed now as an advice.  "Do you believe in Astrology?"- ask some one.  But try rephrasing it and ask " Did you ever experience the Astrology?"  The immediate answer is "What!"  There is much difference in belief and experience.  Unfortunately every belief is contested - some where or other.  Every experienced is recounted.  Will be discussing more about it in next update.

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